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Praise on TBN) et l’auteur, ainsi que la description qui suit :« Terry et Rebecca Crews rejoignent l’hôte invité spécial Phil Munsey, sur Praise de TBN. Écoutez Terry Crews et sa femme, Rebecca Crews, partager leur témoignage sur la dépendance de Terry à la pornographie et les événements qui se sont produits, sauvant leur mariage. REGARDEZ l’épisode complet gratuitement sur l’application TBN : https://watch.tbn.org/videos/praise-144 ABONNEZ-VOUS : https://www.youtube.com/c/PraiseTBN/ BESOIN DE PRIÈRE ? Les partenaires de prière de TBN adoreraient prier avec vous et sont disponibles 24h/24 et 7j/7 : 714-731-1000 (États-Unis et Canada) et +1-714-731-1000 (international). Diffusé depuis 1973, l’émission phare du ministère et du talk-show Praise de TBN est l’un des programmes chrétiens les plus reconnaissables – et les plus regardés – au monde. Enregistré devant un public en direct et animé par Matt et Laurie Crouch de TBN avec d’autres personnalités populaires, Praise présente le meilleur de la musique et du culte chrétiens contemporains, des voix fraîches et percutantes du ministère, des interviews engageantes d’une grande variété d’invités et une heure rapide de discussions pertinentes que vous ne voudrez pas manquer ! #praise #terrycrews #rebeccacrews #tbn ».

Grâce à sa portée mondiale, YouTube permet à chacun de découvrir des vidéos captivantes traitant de multiples thématiques tout en garantissant un environnement sécurisé. C’est une plateforme idéale pour explorer des idées originales et dialoguer de manière constructive.

Préparer une démarche structurée en vue de réduire la consommation excessive

Développer un espace conçu pour la récupération

Utiliser des extensions de navigateur et des applications de contrôle parental pour bloquer l’accès aux contenus pornographiques peut être une stratégie bénéfique. Créer un environnement propice aux activités constructives permet également de réduire les impulsions.

Adopter des solutions pour canaliser les désirs

Comprendre les facteurs qui provoquent la consommation est vital. Les techniques de la TCC, l’adoption d’habitudes positives et un système de soutien peuvent vraiment aider à changer les comportements.

Fixer des intentions claires et accessibles

Pour réussir un sevrage, il est crucial de se fixer des objectifs réalistes, par exemple en diminuant peu à peu le temps passé à visionner du porno. Une prise de conscience des raisons sous-jacentes et des bienfaits à long terme est également essentielle.

Analyser les différentes ressources d’assistance

Rencontrer un professionnel de la santé mentale

Faire appel à un professionnel en santé mentale spécialisé dans les dépendances comportementales, comme un psychologue pratiquant la TCC, permet d’identifier les causes profondes et d’avoir un accompagnement personnalisé.

S’intégrer dans des groupes d’entraide

Dans les groupes de soutien, les membres échangent leurs vécus, découvrent des solutions éprouvées et se soutiennent mutuellement dans leur cheminement vers la guérison.

S’appuyer sur des outils numériques et applications pour évaluer les progrès

Grâce à certaines applications et outils numériques, il est possible de suivre les avancées, de recevoir des notifications motivantes et d’encourager des comportements sains pour se détacher de la pornographie.

Mieux comprendre l’attirance excessive pour le contenu pornographique

Déceler les symptômes caractéristiques d’une addiction

L’usage excessif de pornographie, symptomatique d’une addiction, peut affecter profondément la vie sociale et les objectifs professionnels.

Évaluer comment le porno altère la productivité et l’équilibre personnel

L’addiction peut perturber les relations intimes, altérer l’estime personnelle et limiter la capacité à établir des liens authentiques. Le recours excessif au porno peut générer une dépendance où le désir est exclusivement orienté vers ces contenus

Décoder les mécanismes cérébraux et affectifs

La libération de dopamine en réponse à la pornographie renforce un schéma addictif dans le cerveau, qui peut générer de la honte, de la frustration et un mal-être durable.

Se réinventer en abandonnant la consommation de pornographie

Des relations solides favorisent un environnement positif

L’intimité authentique permet de se libérer des fantasmes et de vivre une sexualité plus épanouie avec un partenaire

Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité

Opter pour une sexualité éthique améliore la qualité des relations et assure un épanouissement mutuel Cesser la pornographie implique une réflexion profonde, des ressources adaptées et du soutien. En comprenant les mécanismes sous-jacents de cette dépendance et en suivant un plan précis, il est possible de retrouver un équilibre de vie et une sexualité plus épanouie. Un suivi constant et l’engagement personnel sont cruciaux pour réussir (voir à ce sujet ce service pour la pratique de la chasteté).

Favoriser des choix éclairés pour un mode de vie équilibré

Pratiquer la méditation ou le yoga renforce la synergie entre le corps et l’esprit, ce qui aide à maîtriser les désirs compulsifs

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: the most brilliant word that pastor gave me was that you need to get better for you that’s right praise god and that changed everything like because usually he’s like i want to get my wife back and i want to and it was like but she could that’s her decision that’s not my decision and i said but i still need to to work on me gary would you just speak to the other terries that are out there that are haven’t had their damascus off experience and would you reach out to them and talk to them one on one on what you feel has to happen for them to come to a place that you have come to well first of all i brought up earlier this cognitive dissonance and what was wild is that i was a christian man married for a long time churchgoer everything looked great you know everything on the outside looked fantastic hey how are you doing brother wonderful but inside i had a total addiction to pornography and it was one of those things where you know you almost feel like you say it’s kind of like with people with alcohol or anything they say oh yeah i can quit any time you feel like well i could just quit that but when you want when you don’t want to do it yeah and you do it anyway yeah it’s like what is happening what is going on and slowly but surely i was losing my grip on everything it started to color the way i saw everybody in my life and she and this is the thing i and this i thoroughly believe this and one thing that feeds pornography is your beliefs and i being the car carrying football playing masculine super guy i believed i was more valuable than my wife and kids which puts me in a place where your wife and kids are kind of property they become you can control them you get to joel you can move uh whatever you’re saying don’t don’t you know i used to dismiss her i remember feeling like uh she doesn’t know what she’s talking about and she’s speaking truth totally but i could not hear it christian man walking around i know what i’m doing it’s my way or the highway some of these things that you you know you kind of pick up that have nothing to do with your with what jesus is telling you to do yeah you know what i mean it’s all the stuff you’re bringing in and adding to and let me tell you something once i remember there was a there was a time when i finally she came to me and she kept telling me terry something’s not right about you something’s not right about you and i would lie i would literally be like oh i know you’re i don’t know you’re wrong whatever and i knew nothing would be right and let me tell you all culminated this one day i was in new york she was in la she called me up she said something’s not right terry tell me what it is and i really god literally told me and this is a boy i mean i heard it he said if you don’t come clean to her i’m done with you i’m done with you and i was like wait a minute you know like god wait wait wait he’s like i’ve had enough i’ve given you grace i’ve given you all the i’ve given you every time i let you come back and you get a chance to clean it up and you didn’t if you don’t do this now it’s i’m gone and i remember telling her telling her about my addiction telling her about the times i fell telling her about all and i never i remember hearing this audible gasp and it was the most painful thing i ever heard in my life because it’s real now yeah and literally she said you’re i’m done with you go you can’t come home it’s a wrap it’s over i called pastor joe i’m literally in the next within that moment i remember that call terry and i want everyone to know that when terry called me he for real was broken because i’ve talked to a lot of guys who got caught and their wives make them call me and i can just tell but they’re not really ready to change yet terry was basically i’m a liar i’m a hypocrite he went through it all and i remember i think one of the best things that god gave me to tell you at that time i said look terry said i wish i could promise you that if you do the right thing your marriage will survive eventually rebecca will take you back says harry i can’t promise you that i said if you’re going to change you got to change for you and if it still cost you your marriage hope not but if it does cost you whatever you got to change for you honestly i don’t know very many people that i’ve seen terry you and i’ll talk about that either talk about this some more about what you did because i’m telling you what you’ve what you did and actually rebecca has a whole separate story what you’ve done it’s these guys sitting here phil are a miracle you know that and just talk about what you did and i think it’s worth it you know to have you still have your wife still and i think i i think i even think terry i think your career is what it is today because of god’s favor upon you that may not you know maybe you would have succeeded the other way who knows but i know that your success is because of god’s favor because he made some tough choices wow that’s powerful i want to go ahead i was going to say in the same way you had to deal with your own you know struggle for the addiction i prayed with rebecca and you did some powerful uh wrestling too because yeah i went to rehab too [Laughter] dealing with that forgiveness you guys talked a thousand times more than we talked and i want to say too one of the things that happens with a secret coming out is that it makes you wonder about everything in your life it makes you wonder like how much of everything that i knew about you and believed about you now isn’t true that’s right and it makes you crazy it really makes you crazy and so there’s therapy for the crazy right and so i i want to say this because one of the things i used to call my husband was mr image okay uh because he would be polite to me when the fans were watching and then we’d get in the car and it’d be another terry and i said go you’re phony like you’re phony i’m like you smile and wave at me and treat me all good because you know the fans like that image of you but you know what god is going to get you i used to say that i used to say god is going to get you that’s what he did but but the thing i want to say is this when my husband sat me down and said because we had a marriage counsel we went to all the time um he was on our reality show so i won’t drop his name but he was on our show and he told terry you need to go to there a couple places i can send you because this is addiction and when my husband sat down and said i’m going i was shocked i was shocked because this was somebody who i knew protected his public image tremendously and there was something about that decision that just made me know oh my god he is for real right he is for real and i was like now i’m going to have to forgive him because i said god said to me how are you going to preach the gospel and you won’t live it yeah because this is rubber meets the road forgiveness is the highest calling of christianity you are no more christian than when you love those who don’t deserve it and i just was like no lord you know but but but he did the work is the point yeah but i want to add to that i get the the the most brilliant word that pastor gave me was that you need to get better for you yes that’s right praise god and that would change everything like because usually he’s like i want to get my wife back and i want to and it was like but she could that’s her decision yeah right that’s not my decision yeah and i said but i still need to to work on me yeah and i said and god was like i’m dealing with you right now and i that was like a watershed moment that’s when i knew i could go i needed to go get help i needed to make that work and that was a wonderful word and i want to give you credit honey because once he made this decision and it was and it was something that was just so from the heart so real you know once he made that decision it’s like god gave him credit because then god was on me he said now rebecca yeah i told you to throw him out god told me to give him the consequence yeah and i didn’t he said and this is what i felt like the holy spirit said we’re waiting we’re waiting and literally within an amount of time i felt just the pressure of the lord to say now gather up the oil and the wine and the work and come and walk alongside him as he recovers and he said and if he’s not a better man by x amount of time then you leave wow but if he changes you’re not going to want to leave well i’m still here [Laughter] you’ve made it worth it at tbn our mission is to use every available means to reach as many individuals and families as possible with the life-changing gospel of jesus christ thank you for helping make the gospel of grace go around the world without you we couldn’t do it god bless you .

Déroulement de la vidéo:

0.16 the most brilliant word that pastor gave
2.96 me
3.6 was that you need to get better for you
6.879 that’s right praise god and that changed
9.519 everything
10.559 like because usually he’s like i want to
11.92 get my wife back and i want to
13.84 and it was like but she could that’s her
17.039 decision
18.24 that’s not my decision and i said but i
21.119 still need
22.32 to to work on me gary would you just
25.519 speak to
27.039 the other terries that are out there
29.519 that are
30.4 haven’t had their damascus off
32.32 experience
34.079 and would you reach out to them and
37.2 talk to them one on one on what you feel
40.399 has to happen for them to come to a
42.559 place that you have come to
44.16 well first of all i brought up earlier
47.2 this cognitive dissonance and what was
50.399 wild is that i
52.32 was a christian man married for a long
56.0 time
57.12 churchgoer everything looked great
60.32 you know everything on the outside
62.879 looked fantastic hey how are you doing
65.119 brother
66.08 wonderful but inside i
69.2 had a total addiction to pornography
73.2 and it was one of those things where you
76.08 know
77.04 you almost feel like you say it’s kind
78.96 of like with people with alcohol or
80.479 anything they say oh yeah i can quit any
81.92 time
82.56 you feel like well i could just quit
84.0 that but when you want
85.759 when you don’t want to do it yeah and
87.759 you do it anyway
88.96 yeah it’s like what is happening what is
92.24 going on and slowly but
94.24 surely i was losing my grip
97.28 on everything it started to color the
99.92 way i saw
101.52 everybody in my life and she
105.04 and this is the thing i and this i
107.04 thoroughly believe this
108.799 and one thing that feeds pornography is
112.0 your beliefs
113.439 and i being the car carrying
116.88 football playing masculine super guy
120.399 i believed i was more valuable
123.68 than my wife and kids which puts me in a
126.64 place where
127.68 your wife and kids are kind of property
130.16 they become
131.039 you can control them you get to joel you
133.599 can move
134.239 uh whatever you’re saying don’t don’t
136.08 you know i used to dismiss her
138.72 i remember feeling like uh she doesn’t
141.599 know what she’s talking about
142.56 and she’s speaking truth totally but i
145.36 could not hear it
147.04 christian man walking around i know what
149.44 i’m doing
150.08 it’s my way or the highway some of these
152.8 things that you you know you kind of
154.4 pick up
155.04 that have nothing to do with your with
158.16 what jesus is telling you to do
159.92 yeah you know what i mean it’s all the
161.28 stuff you’re bringing in and adding to
164.16 and let me tell you something once i
167.04 remember there was a there was a time
169.2 when i finally she came to me and she
171.04 kept telling me terry something’s not
172.56 right about you
173.44 something’s not right about you and i
176.0 would lie
177.04 i would literally be like oh i know
178.8 you’re i don’t know
180.4 you’re wrong whatever and i knew nothing
183.44 would be right and let me tell you all
185.04 culminated
186.239 this one day i was in new york she was
189.12 in la
189.84 she called me up she said something’s
192.08 not right terry
193.12 tell me what it is and i really god
196.319 literally told me and this is a boy i
198.8 mean i
199.44 heard it he said if you don’t come clean
203.04 to her
203.92 i’m done with you i’m done with you
208.159 and i was like wait a minute you know
210.159 like god wait wait wait he’s like
213.12 i’ve had enough i’ve given you grace
215.92 i’ve given you
216.799 all the i’ve given you every time i let
219.76 you
220.56 come back and you get a chance to clean
222.239 it up and you didn’t
225.68 if you don’t do this now it’s i’m gone
230.08 and i remember telling her telling her
233.12 about my addiction
234.48 telling her about the times i fell
237.599 telling her about all and i never i
239.92 remember hearing this audible gasp
243.04 and it was the most painful thing i ever
246.08 heard in my life because it’s real now
249.519 yeah and literally she said you’re
252.72 i’m done with you go
255.76 you can’t come home it’s a wrap it’s
258.239 over
260.0 i called pastor joe i’m literally in the
263.6 next
264.639 within that moment i remember that call
267.12 terry and i want everyone to know that
269.04 when terry called me
270.32 he for real was broken because i’ve
272.72 talked to a lot of guys who got caught
275.68 and their wives make them call me and
278.8 i can just tell but they’re not really
280.08 ready to change yet terry was basically
282.08 i’m a liar i’m a hypocrite he went
284.72 through it all
285.44 and i remember i think one of the best
286.8 things that god gave me to tell you at
288.32 that time i said look terry said i wish
290.24 i could promise you that if you do the
291.52 right thing
292.24 your marriage will survive eventually
294.4 rebecca will take you back says harry i
295.919 can’t promise you that
297.36 i said if you’re going to change you got
299.28 to change for you
300.72 and if it still cost you your marriage
303.039 hope not but if it does cost you
304.8 whatever you got to change for you
306.56 honestly i don’t know very many people
308.72 that i’ve seen terry you and i’ll talk
310.32 about that either
311.199 talk about this some more about what you
313.12 did because i’m telling you what you’ve
314.56 what you did and actually rebecca has a
316.72 whole separate story
317.759 what you’ve done it’s these guys sitting
319.44 here phil are a miracle
320.8 you know that and just talk about what
322.4 you did and i think it’s worth it
324.32 you know to have you still have your
326.479 wife still and i think i i think i even
328.88 think terry i think your career
330.88 is what it is today because of god’s
333.36 favor upon you
334.8 that may not you know maybe you would
336.4 have succeeded the other way who knows
338.24 but i know that your success is because
340.0 of god’s favor because he
341.36 made some tough choices wow that’s
343.6 powerful
344.4 i want to go ahead i was going to say in
346.08 the same way you had to deal with your
348.0 own
348.4 you know struggle for the addiction i
350.639 prayed with rebecca and
352.4 you did some powerful uh wrestling
355.759 too because yeah i went to rehab too
357.76 [Laughter]
359.759 dealing with that forgiveness you guys
361.039 talked a thousand times more than we
362.56 talked
363.28 and i want to say too one of the things
365.68 that happens with
367.44 a secret coming out is that it makes you
370.319 wonder
371.6 about everything in your life it makes
373.68 you wonder like
376.08 how much of everything that i knew about
378.16 you and believed about you
379.68 now isn’t true that’s right and it makes
382.4 you crazy
383.28 it really makes you crazy and so there’s
385.84 therapy for the crazy
387.6 right and so i i want to say this
390.24 because one of the things i used to
392.0 call my husband was mr image
395.759 okay uh because he would be polite to me
399.039 when the fans were
400.319 watching and then we’d get in the car
403.039 and it’d be another terry
404.8 and i said go you’re phony like you’re
407.12 phony i’m like you smile and wave at me
409.28 and treat me all good because you know
410.639 the fans
411.28 like that image of you but you know what
413.52 god is going to get you i used to say
415.039 that
415.52 i used to say god is going to get you
418.72 that’s what he did but but the thing i
420.72 want to say is this
423.36 when my husband sat me down and said
425.759 because we had a marriage counsel we
427.039 went to all the time
428.24 um he was on our reality show so i won’t
430.639 drop his name but he was on our show
433.039 and he told terry you need to go to
435.28 there a couple places i can send you
437.039 because this is addiction and when my
439.52 husband sat down and said
441.12 i’m going i was shocked
444.319 i was shocked because this was somebody
446.56 who
447.52 i knew protected his public image
450.4 tremendously
452.0 and there was something about that
453.52 decision
455.28 that just made me know oh my god
459.039 he is for real right he is for real
462.4 and i was like now i’m going to have to
463.68 forgive him
468.4 because i said god said to me how are
471.36 you going to preach the gospel
473.199 and you won’t live it yeah because this
475.36 is rubber meets the road
476.96 forgiveness is the highest calling of
479.599 christianity
480.72 you are no more christian than when you
482.479 love those who don’t deserve it
484.319 and i just was like no lord you know
487.52 but but but he did the work is the point
490.879 yeah but i want to add to that
492.8 i get the the the most brilliant word
496.639 that pastor gave me was that you need
499.68 to get better for you yes that’s right
502.08 praise god
502.72 and that would change everything like
505.28 because usually he’s like i want to get
506.56 my wife back and i want to
508.4 and it was like but she could that’s her
511.68 decision
512.32 yeah right that’s not my decision yeah
514.719 and i said but i still need
516.959 to to work on me yeah and i said
520.0 and god was like i’m dealing with you
522.159 right now
523.2 and i that was like a watershed moment
526.32 that’s when
527.12 i knew i could go i needed to go get
530.32 help i needed to
531.76 make that work and that was a wonderful
533.36 word and i want to give you credit honey
535.44 because
537.2 once he made this decision and it was
540.8 and it was something that was just so
543.279 from the heart
544.56 so real you know once he made
548.08 that decision it’s like god gave him
550.08 credit
551.2 because then god was on me he said now
554.56 rebecca
555.6 yeah i told you to throw him out god
558.16 told me to
559.92 give him the consequence yeah and i
561.519 didn’t he said and this is what i felt
563.76 like the holy spirit said
565.2 we’re waiting we’re waiting
569.04 and literally within an amount of time i
571.2 felt
572.08 just the pressure of the lord to say now
575.12 gather up the oil and the wine
578.24 and the work and come and walk alongside
580.72 him as he recovers
582.399 and he said and if he’s not a better man
584.72 by x amount of time then you leave
587.36 wow but if he changes you’re not going
589.92 to want to leave
592.08 well i’m still here
592.96 [Laughter]
596.8 you’ve made it worth it at tbn
599.839 our mission is to use every available
601.92 means to reach as many individuals and
604.0 families as possible with the
605.44 life-changing gospel of jesus christ
607.76 thank you for helping make the gospel of
611.6 grace
612.56 go around the world without you we
615.6 couldn’t do it
616.32 god bless you
.